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    An international survey has shown that over 70 percent of South Africans have faced stress levels that make it difficult to cope with life’s demands and more than half have reported feeling so stressed that they were unable to attend work over the last year.

    The Ipsos World Mental Health survey, based on three years of data from more than 23 000 participants across 31 countries, concentrated on the impacts of stress and depression on daily functioning. It revealed that stress is significantly affecting the workforce in South Africa.

    Meanwhile, a separate report from UNICEF has revealed that at least 60 percent of young South Africans have required mental health assistance in the past year. Persistent obstacles highlighted include limited family discussions and uncertainty about where to seek aid.

    South Africa ranks among the highest globally in mental health disorders due to factors such as poverty, unemployment, social and political unrest, and trauma due to exposure from violence and abuse. Access to mental health professionals and resources are also limited.

    Health expert Vanessa Ascencao emphasised the importance of mental health for overall well-being, noting that mental illness has been shown to impact physical health, relationships, livelihoods and quality of life, particularly among young people. She called on both the government and South Africans to prioritise mental health as a crucial component of overall health.

    “Make mental health a priority through self-care practices like regular exercise, healthy eating, connecting with loved ones and adopting relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, and mindfulness. Spend time in nature as it’s a powerful antidote to stress. If you’re managing a mental illness, stick to your treatment plan, identify triggers, and seek help when necessary,” said Ascencao.

    “In the midst of life’s many challenges, establishing a support network and adopting strategies to manage obstacles are crucial for emotional balance and resilience. Consider incorporating high-quality, natural stress relief solutions such as Rescue Gummies, which contains five unique Bach flower essences developed by Dr Edward Bach in the 1930s to assist in coping with emotional overwhelm,” Ascencao added.

    Dr Edward Bach, a renowned physician and homeopath, advocated for a holistic approach to health, emphasizing the importance of nurturing both the mind and body. He dedicated his life to studying the therapeutic properties of flowers and plants as powerful tools for enhancing emotional well-being.

    Research shows that chewing can result in a significant reduction in anxiety. The Rescue Gummies are non-habit forming, delicious, easy to take on the go, vegan-friendly, gluten-free and contain no artificial flavours, sweeteners or synthetic dyes,” Ascencao said. 

    Weddings are joyous, but they often come with long to-do lists, overwhelming choices, and emotional ups and downs. For busy couples, taking intentional steps toward wellness, physically, mentally, emotionally can make the journey to “I do” more peaceful, more connected, and more sustainable. Here are well-rounded strategies and tips for staying strong as a pair in 2025.


    1. Pre-Wedding Fitness: Finding Time, Staying Motivated

    Starting early and building a routine that fits both partners is key.

    • Timeline & Progressive Routines
      Experts recommend beginning fitness routines 9-12 months before your wedding if possible. Starting with moderate workouts and gradually increasing intensity gives your body time to adjust without burnout.

    • Mix Cardio, Strength, Flexibility
      Combine strength training (upper body, core, legs), cardio (walks, dance, cycling), and flexibility or mobility work (yoga or stretching). This supports posture, endurance, and energy for long wedding days.

    • Short & Efficient Workouts for Busy Schedules
      Even 20-30 minutes sessions, a few times a week, can make a difference. Short bursts, HIIT style, or structured strength + mobility circuits help maximize results when time is tight.

    • Nutrition & Sleep
      Good routines include consistent sleep, hydration, balanced whole-foods, reducing processed sugar and unhealthy fats. Sleep helps recovery, mood, appearance—skin, energy levels etc.

    • Partner Accountability
      Exercising together, checking in on each other’s progress, perhaps hiring a trainer or following a couple’s workout plan can help both stay motivated.

    Mental Health & Stress-Management

    Wedding planning stresses are real. Tackling mental health head-on helps keep things joyful.

    • Mindfulness & Meditation Practices
      Short daily sessions even 5-10 minutes in breathing, mindfulness meditation or guided imagery can reduce anxiety, improve focus, and help both partners stay present.

    • Communication & Boundaries
      Set up regular check-ins with each other about how you’re feeling (stressed, overwhelmed, excited). Be honest about what help you need. Boundaries around planning, chores, guest communications can prevent resentment.

    • Professional Support When Needed
      Consider couples’ therapy or counseling if you find recurring conflict, anxiety, or depressive feelings. South Africa has registration bodies like HPCSA for counselors/psychologists. Retreats or wellness weekends can also serve as reset moments.

    • Self-Care Rituals
      Build small rituals into your life: evening walks together, regular massages, disconnecting from social media, reading, journaling. These little acts can recharge both mind and relationship.

    Mindfulness & Being Present

    It’s easy to get lost in logistics. Cultivating slow, supportive practices keeps love front and centre.

    • Mindful Planning
      Before each planning session, take a moment together to ground yourselves—deep breaths, check-in: how is each person doing emotionally? Then proceed.

    • Shared Rituals
      Perhaps weekly yoga, meditation, or doing a hobby together as a stress relief. Shared wellness helps bond and reminds both of why you’re getting married.

    • Gratitude Practices
      Each day, share one thing you appreciate about the other or about the process. It can shift mindset away from stress toward enjoyment.

    • Digital Detox Times
      Set times when you’ll avoid wedding-related social media, emails, or group chats. Just as important as outcome planning is maintaining mental rest.

    Sample Plan: A 6-Month Wellness Checklist for Couples

    Time Frame Fitness Action Mental Health / Mindfulness Action
    6-12 months out Establish 3×/week workout routine; try one new physical activity together Begin couple’s meditation; schedule monthly couple check-ins
    3-6 months out Increase strength training; refine diet with more whole foods; ensure rest days Identify stress triggers; consider therapist or counselor sessions if needed; start journaling
    1-2 months out Focus on mobility, posture, relaxation (yoga, stretching) Plan self-care days; reduce external stress; practice gratitude; rest well
    Wedding week Light workouts to stay limber; avoid over-exertion Minimal tech/social media; calming routines; ensure sleep; rituals to ground yourselves before big day

    Why Wellness Matters, Beyond Looking Great

    • Improved energy & stamina for long wedding day events.

    • Better mood regulation: less fighting, more enjoyment of the process.

    • Connecting deeply as a couple, not just planning partners but also emotional supports.

    • Wedding memories richer when anxiety is lower and presence is higher.

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