A bold suit, bright shirts and graphic accessories combine for wedding attire that’s anything but boring.
Shirt, Zara; jacket, CSquared; tie, Topman; tie pin, Robert Daniel
Shirt and trousers, both CSquared; jacket with lapel pin, River Island
Shirt, Robert Daniel; jacket and trousers, both CSquared; boutonnière, Fabulous Flowers; shoes, stylist’s own
Leo wears: Shirt, River Island; jacket, H&M; shorts, Zara; bow tie, Robert Daniel; lapel pin, CSquared; shoes, Call it Spring
Samuel wears: Shirt and shorts, both Zara; jacket, H&M; bow tie, River Island; lapel pin, CSquared; shoes, Tread+Miller
Leo wears: Shirt, H&M; jacket, CSquared; trousers, Topman; tie, River Island
Samuel wears: Shirt and trousers, both Topman, vest, CSquared; jacket, River Island; tie, stylist’s own; pocket square, Robert Daniel
Trousers, Zara; shoes, Tread+Miller
Fashion: Kim Mitha-Coe
Photography: Gareth van Nelson
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Since your bridesmaids and groomsmen will help ensure everything goes according to plan, why not show your appreciation for them with a small token of gratitude? Take your pick from these thoughtful and creative thank you gift ideas.
FOR THE BRIDESMAIDS
1. Transform an old glass jar into a lucky packet of pampering essentials or buy a cute zippered purse and fill it with her favourite items: lip gloss, mints, chocolate, a perfume sample, a hand mirror. Add a tag with a loving note and voila!
2. If you’re having a winter wedding, consider gifting each bridesmaid with a pashmina or shawl in a colour that matches their dress or your overall colour scheme.
3. For summer, try getting hold of paper fans. These will not only come in handy when the heat gets too much to bear, but can also serve as awesome props for photographs!
4. If you and your bridesmaids are getting ready together, a cute silk robe is a nice gift and will foster bonding between you while you get ready.
FOR THE GROOMSMEN
1. Personalise a wooden box by filling it with a handy shaving kit: a brush, shaving cream and a delicious-smelling aftershave.
2. An accessory such as a bow tie, cufflinks, pocket square or socks is an awesome addition to your groomsmen’s attire and will remind them of the day whenever they wear it.
3. Customise a leather bracelet or keychain with each groomsman’s name.
4. An instant camera will help encourage them to document your wedding in their own unique way.
5. Buy inexpensive T-shirts or hoodies and get them monogrammed with a fun quote or saying that means something to all of you.
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Want to jet off to a tropical island for your ceremony? Or do you have your heart set on the big-city lights? No matter the location, your destination wedding can go as smoothly as checking off this list.
RESEARCH FIRST
The legal side of getting married abroad can be quite lengthy and tedious, with many couples opting to get married legally in South Africa before heading overseas to exchange rings and vows. South Africans who want to get married abroad will need a Certificate of No Impediment from Home Affairs to prove that neither partner is registered as married, a divorce order if one of you was previously married and a Residency Certificate to prove where you currently live. Basically, the government of the country you’re visiting needs to be notified of the marriage in their country before you can get married there. Not all countries will have the same requirements, so it’s best to get in touch with your local Home Affairs branch and contact the foreign country’s South African embassy ahead of the time.
TIMING IS EVERYTHING
Unfortunately, most popular wedding destinations are also popular vacation spots, which means more tourists and higher prices. Read up on the best time to visit your venue without sacrificing on great weather. It will also make the experience less stressful if you’ve already spent time planning and meeting with your vendors. Hire a local coordinator instead of bringing one from home. You will feel much more at ease knowing they are familiar with the environment, and they’ll also be able to recommend suitable suppliers.
A PICTURE (AND REVIEW) IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS
If the destination you plan to get married at is a resort or offers accommodation, scour the internet for TripAdvisor reviews. This will give you an overall impression of the establishment and you’ll have the added bonus of being able to see photos that aren’t on their official site.
ACCESS ALL AREAS
Try and keep the venue central. Make sure it’s convenient for your guests and organise transport for them to the venue to ensure they get there safe and sound. You can also use a free website builder to help keep your guests in the loop every step of the way – without the hassle of back-and-forth texts, emails and calls. Create a page where people can find helpful answers for accommodation options, budgets and travel time. If you have a relatively small wedding party, you can also create a WhatsApp group in the days leading up to the wedding.
ULTIMATE ADVENTURE
Add a couple of planned events around the wedding day so your guests can mingle with each other more and explore the destination. This is a great way to show people places they might not have chosen to go and will help them make a holiday from the trip – they are there to celebrate your union but also want to make their trip worthwhile.
DISASTER MANAGEMENT
Ensure your dress, groom’s suit and bridesmaids outfits have been taken care of before you leave home. The last thing you want to do is last-minute sewing! Stay on the safe side and pack your dress and his suit in your carry-on luggage, and ask your bridesmaids and groomsmen to do the same. If your luggage does get lost or arrives late, you can rest assured you have the important bits with you.
PRETTY PREP
Make appointments for any beauty treatments you plan on getting before you get there. To ensure you look amazing for your photographs, skip the make-up while flying and make sure you drink a lot of water during the flight. It’s also a good idea to have all your wedding stationery– menus, seating charts and place settings –printed beforehand. Be prepared to add an extra suitcase of decor items you think you may need, as you won’t always find everything you want in a foreign place.
ALL HANDS ON DECK
Since you are more than likely only going to invite a small crowd of close family and friends to your destination wedding, you’ll know these are the people who you can rely on. They willwant to help where they can, so instead of taking things into your own hands, delegate certain tasks to those who are keen to lend a hand.
Here in SA, we’re spoilt with beautiful landscapes that make for breathtaking bridal photos. But, with unpredictable weather in many places, it takes solid planning to pull off…
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