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    The Department of Home Affairs has officially resumed a wider variety of services, now that the country is back at Level 1 lockdown.

    On Thursday, March 4 the Department began allowing South Africans to apply for and collect their passports, as well as register their marriages among other services. This comes after marriage services were temporarily suspended on January 12.

    The following services will be resumed during Alert Level 1 lockdown:

    • Re-issues of Smart ID Cards and identity documents
    • Registration and solemnisation of marriages
    • Amendments and rectifications
    • Late registration of birth for all categories
    • Applications and collections of passports for all categories

    The citizenship service remains temporarily unavailable. Home Affairs Minister Aaron Motsoaledi urges citizens to remain cautious and follow COVID-19 health and safety protocols when visiting a Home Affairs office.

    “We do not want our offices to be super spreader sites. We urge everyone who visits our offices to observe social distancing, sanitise their hands regularly and to wear their masks properly, covering their noses and mouths,” he said.

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    Your wedding day is a special moment, one you’ll want to look your absolute best for. If you’re not afraid to show some skin and ooze class and sophistication, a glamorous dress is perfect for you.

    Glamour comes in many forms, but ultimately it means to be alluring. As such, design details that pique the interest are key. Think extended trains, a form-fitting silhouette and off-the-shoulder cuts. Add some applique or lace detail to top it all off and you’re set.

    If you’re in need of some inspiration, look no further. Here are some brides giving us ultimate glamour:

     

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    If you already consider yourself a princess, you may as well get the ring to match. The princess-cut is the most popular of the fancy cut diamond shapes, according to Shimansky. It is a timeless shape, with a geometric silhouette that makes the stone appear brighter and whiter.

    A princess-cut diamond has a square-shaped stone with pointed corners and can have up to 78 facets. From the side, it appears as if the stone is the shape of an inverted pyramid.  This cut offers stunning sparkle thanks to its high levels of brilliance and fire.

    This cut requires master craftmanship. In the wrong hands, the stone’s delicate and intricate facets can appear chunky.  It must have a deep cut, a relatively slim girdle and pointed corners. V-shaped prongs hold the body of the stone securely in place while also protecting the corners.

    Go simple with a clean band or add some flair with a pavé finish. You could also angle the princess cut diamond so that the points create the shape of a star instead, for an extra unique look.

    If you’re on the market for a princess cut ring, take a look at these stunners for inspiration:

     

     

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    Some meet their future partner late in life, and others can say they’ve known their love since they were kids. But how often is it that you meet your future husband right at birth?

    In a wild twist of fate, Courtney Mahnken and her now fiancé Nick Monguso discovered they were actually born in the same New Jersey hospital 26 years ago. In fact, their moms gave birth right next to each other.

    Taking to TikTok, Mahnken shared the truly crazy coincidence. Since posting on February 18. her TikTok has been viewed over 7.7-million times.

    “When I was 14 years old, I got my first boyfriend. It was the first time my mom was ever meeting one of my boyfriend’s moms, obviously,” Mahnken says in the clip. “The first thing she says to his mom is ‘Oh my god you look so familiar! Where did you give birth?’”

    “Immediately I’m embarrassed, and they start talking about their birthing stories. Well, come to realize, they gave birth next to each other,” she recalls.

    “My boyfriend and I are less than 24 hours apart, and my last name starts with “Ma,” his starts with “Mo,” so not only that, we were next to each other in the baby room. My mom remembered them because he was the ‘big fat baby.”

    @reneemahnkie#stitch with @breecard #greenscreen I guess you can say we are actually soulmates ??‍♀️♬ original sound – Courtney Mahnken

    Keeping up with their series of coincidences, the pair attended the same elementary school, middle school, and high school. The pair began dating as teenagers but broke up before reconnecting when they attended the same college years later.

    Monguso went down on one knee to propose in November 2020, and they plan to tie the knot in June 2022.

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    Wondering where to put your phone on your big day? A purse seems like the logical option, and luckily the sweet new trend is to carry one come wedding day.

    A bridal purse comes in handy to store your essential items like your cellphone, lipstick, perfume, pain pills for the inevitable headache you’ll get and notes for any speeches you may plan on making. It’s also another accessory to complete your bridal beauty.

    Make sure to match your purse to your bridal outfit for a cohesive look. Whether you are rocking lace or pearls, fringe or satin, your purse can follow suit.

    Here are some bags we are absolutely obsessed with:

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    Classic and stylish, buttons have been a popular trend in the wedding world for decades. Grace Kelly famously rocked buttons down her bodice to connect the delicate lace of her wedding dress when she married Prince Ranier of Monaco in 1952.

    Channel the Princess of Monaco and incorporate buttons into your bridal look. The most common way brides choose to do this is down the length at the back of the gown in place of a zipper closure. You can also add buttons to your sleeves for a Victorian feel if you opt for long sleeves.

    Here are some brides looking cute as a button with this trend:

     

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    Just said ‘Yes’? Congratulations! What is typically an exciting moment is somewhat dampened by the global pandemic, as we cannot celebrate with one another as we used to.

    If you still want to honour your big news, fear not. There are still ways to celebrate with your closest friends and family without putting them at risk amid the pandemic.

    Here are a few ideas:

    Hold a (virtual) celebration:

    Just because you can’t be together physically does not mean you cannot celebrate! Host your festivities via online platforms like Facetime, Skype or Zoom.

    You can still make it fun by decorating your home and having your ‘guests’ dress up. Planning a themed event makes it extra special and gives your friends and family something to dress up for. For an extra sweet touch, have small thank you gifts delivered to your guests’ homes after the celebration.

    Drive-by party:

    Your loved ones can attend your event from the safety of their cars, ensuring that all safety precautions are met while still giving you the feeling of their presence.

    When choosing the location of the drive-by, ensure that it is a wide-open, public space. This will mean that everyone driving by will be able to clearly see you. You could even do it in your front yard if you have space and don’t have walls.

    Set up a spot to show yourselves off, for example, you can decorate fancy chairs as thrones for you to sit on as your parade drives by. Assign a close relative or friend the role of head driver. This ensures that there is somebody leading the cars to your location, and allows for some sort of order for the drive-by.

    Take engagement photos:

    You’ll want to remember this moment for the rest of your life, so it makes sense to document your engagement. Photographers were hit hard by the pandemic, and hiring one is a great way to give back to small business.

    Keep COVID-19 protocols in mind by having your photographer work from a safe distance with a mask on and have sanitiser on hand.

    After you receive your pictures, have them printed and framed or emailed to your friends and family so that they can feel like they are a part of your special moment.

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    Residents are encouraged to comment on a new discussion paper on the possible adoption of a single marriage statute for South Africa.

    Current South African law around marriage is fragmented due to the multitude of religions and cultures recognised under the Constitution, each with its own rules around marriage. Beyond this, there are separate pieces of legislation for same-sex civil unions and opposite-sex marriages.

    The South African Law Reform Commission (SALRC) drafted two bills as alternative options to unify laws under a single piece of legislation based on the Constitution. The first option is the ‘Protected Relationships Bill’. The second option is the ‘Recognition and Registration of Marriages and Life Partnerships Bill’.

    The Bills seek to:

    – provide for the recognition of protected relationships or of marriages and life partnerships, entered into by parties regardless of the religious, cultural or any other beliefs of the parties, or the manner in which the relationship was entered into

    – provide for the requirements for entering into a protected relationship or a marriage or a life partnership

    – provide for the registration of protected relationships or marriages and life partnerships

    – provide for the legal consequences of entering into protected relationships or marriages and life partnerships

    – provide for matters incidental thereto.

    There are a number of proposals that fall underneath the Protection Relationships Bill, including a shift in the definition of a monogamous protected relationship. Under this bill,  a ‘‘monogamous marriage or life partnership’ means the relationship of two people regardless of their sex, sexual orientation, or gender identity, to the exclusion of all others, unless dissolved by divorce or death of one or both parties

    The Protected Relationships Bill refers to a ‘protected relationship’ as

    – any subsisting marriage concluded in terms of the Marriage Act, 1961 (Act No. 25 of 1961) or any old order marriage legislation or any other prior legislation before the commencement of this Act

    – any subsisting marriage or union concluded in terms of the Civil Union Act, 2006 (Act No. 17 of 2006) before the commencement of this Act

    – and any subsisting customary marriage concluded in terms of the Recognition of Customary Marriages Act, 1998 (Act No. 120 of 1998)

    – any subsisting monogamous or polygynous marriage or relationship concluded or entered into in terms of the tenets of any religion or culture before or after the commencement of this Act

    – any life partnership, where the parties cohabit and have assumed permanent responsibility for supporting each other

    In terms of option two in the Recognition and Registration of Marriages and Life Partnerships Bill ‘marriage or life partnership’ means

    – any subsisting marriage concluded in terms of the Marriage Act, 1961 (Act No. 25 of 1961), old order marriage legislation or any other prior legislation before the commencement of this Act;

    – any subsisting union or marriage concluded in terms of the Civil Union Act, 2006 (Act No. 17 of 2006) before the commencement of this Act;

    – any subsisting customary marriage concluded in terms of the Recognition of Customary Marriages Act, 1998 (Act No. 120 of 1998;

    – any subsisting monogamous or polygynous marriage or relationship concluded or entered into in terms of the tenets of any religion or culture before or after the commencement of this Act;

    – any life partnership, where the parties cohabit and have assumed permanent responsibility for supporting each other.

    The minimum age to enter into a protected relationship or marriage or life partnership is 18 years, without exception.

    Respondents are requested to submit written comment, representations or submissions to the Commission by 31 March 2021 for the attention of Pierre van Wyk to the following address: The Secretary South African Law Reform Commission Private Bag X668 Pretoria 0001 E-mail: [email protected]

    Read the full proposal here: dp152-prj144-SingleMarriageStatute-Jan2021

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    Videography will be one of your biggest expenses and considering that it will last a lifetime, you can’t afford not to take the time to do your homework.
    We’ve already highlighted a list of introductory questions you should ask your videographer before booking them. Once you’ve settled on one, there are a few more questions to ask to help finalise your perfect day. Here are some more questions to ask them before you walk down the aisle:

    Have you shot a wedding at my venue before?

    A good videographer will be able to efficiently identify the spots with beautiful lighting or figure out where to position themselves to get the best angle. Nevertheless, if your videographer has shot at a specific location before, they’ll know their way around and will get the job done more effectively than a videographer who has not. If your videographer has never worked at your venue before, suggest visiting the venue with them before the big day so that they have a chance to become familiar with it.

    Which parts of the occasion will you shoot?

    Videographers regularly specify the number of hours that they’ll shoot, but which sections of your wedding fall within those hours, isn’t always clear. It’s practically a given that major events, such as your ceremony and first dance will be shot, but if you’d like the pre-drinks gathering or a session with your photographer to be included, ask if they’ll cover that as well. If you don’t have clarity on what’ll be shot from the get-go, you may end up with a video you’re not particularly fond of.

    Which equipment do you use?

    Videographers arriving at weddings with colossal cameras on wheels or other equally obtrusive tools is a thing of the past. Nowadays, most videography apparatus simply consists of a camera and a tripod. You want to ensure that your guests don’t feel intruded on, so check the size and types of equipment that’ll be used.

    If these are large, ensure your venue is able to accommodate this without any interruption to the celebrations taking place. It’s also a good idea to find out whether the videographer will make use of a wireless mic as wires all over the place could be hazardous while no mic could mean your vows and speeches aren’t audible.

    How do you edit the footage?

    You’d naturally want an exquisite final product and this can only be achieved with high-quality editing methods. Ask your videographer to describe the procedure they follow when editing. The most reliable way of editing is to upload the film negative on a computer and then make the necessary adjustments on-screen. Some videographers use an in-camera editing method that involves attempting to get flawless shots the first time around to lower production time and costs. This could, unfortunately, result in a second-rate product.

    Which music will you use?

    The ideal music will blend seamlessly with the visuals to inject energy and stir great emotion. Be upfront with your videographer about the kind of music you’re crazy (and not so crazy) about, so that your video is a reflection of your personal tastes. Nonetheless, bear in mind that your videographer will have a firm understanding of the type of music that will be suitable so you need to have faith in their judgment. Don’t forget to ask whether they’ll use licensed music as the use of unlicensed music could mean getting into trouble with the law.

    Will the video be in high definition (HD)?

    In this day and age, HD television is becoming increasingly popular. Some might even say that it’s become a norm. A video in HD will have sharper visuals that display finer detail – something you shouldn’t compromise on, especially if you’re blowing your budget on one of the best videographers in the business.

    When will the final video be ready?

    Apart from a skilled videographer and top-notch equipment, another necessity for producing a stellar wedding video is sufficient time. After all the footage has been placed in a suitable order, music needs to be added and colours corrected, which can be time-consuming. Each videographer will work according to a unique timeline but the entire process could take roughly eight weeks, with some videographers taking as long as a year! If you’re itching to see the final product, ask your videographer if they’ll put together a trailer so you can get a sneak peek.

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    Your wedding day is all about the love, but having a delicious spread of food doesn’t hurt. I mean, who can pass up a good plate?

    There are so many factors that go into determining your wedding menu but before all of that, you need to settle on a specific caterer. Before making your decision, make sure you ask them these important questions.

    What does your schedule look like on the date of my wedding?

    Occasionally, caterers will prepare food for more than one wedding per day or weekend. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you shouldn’t consider them, although you need reassurance that your wedding won’t be deprived of the time and attention it deserves.

    If your caterer runs a large firm with an abundance of staff, they’ll more likely have the capacity to handle multiple weddings at once. If a smaller firm has another wedding to attend to at the same time as yours and you are doubtful of whether they’ll be able to accommodate yours as well as you would like, you best look at other caterers.

    How do your preset packages work?

    Caterers typically offer preset packages which could involve a variety of services apart from simply whipping up your wedding meal. These range from stocking the bar and baking your wedding cake to supplying waitrons and cleaning up.

    It’s crucial that you take note of what they do and don’t offer. Anything that is important to you that isn’t included in their packages will have to be sourced elsewhere. This can be rather pricey, so if your needs are vast, try getting more bank for your buck by contacting caterers who offer all-inclusive packages.

    Are all menus fixed or can you design a personalised menu?

    Opting for a fixed menu can make your planning process simpler and less time-consuming as there are less decisions to be made. This can be ideal if you’re planning your wedding on a tight time frame or have many other commitments besides wedding planning.

    On the other hand, having a personalised menu means that your precise requirements will be catered for. This will be a major advantage if your guests (or you!) are very particular about what types of food they enjoy. It might also give you the opportunity to match your food to your wedding theme.

    Can you cater for guests with special dietary requirements?

    Catering for guests with special dietary requirements is often possible, but will usually be done for an added fee. If you find this fee to be too high or have a large number of guests with a specific requirement, a caterer who specialises in meeting that requirement may be a more budget-friendly alternative. In the event that you can’t find such a caterer, costs will need to be cut in other areas of your wedding in order for you to feed all of your guests.

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